# Chelsea Smallwood's controversial empire built on infidelity

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Cheating Chelsea Exposed
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The story of manipulation, harassment, and the fight for justice.
An investigation into Chelsea Smallwood&apos;s controversial
empire built on infidelity.
</p>
</header>
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<CardTitle className="text-2xl font-bold font-headline">
Who is Chelsea Smallwood?
From Personal Scandal to Business Opportunity
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<p>
Chelsea Smallwood is the creator and leader of a group known
as &quot;The Other Woman and the Wife.&quot; Marketed as a space for
female empowerment, this group has a darker side. It allegedly
encourages and normalizes infidelity, creating a platform
where individuals share intimate details of their affairs.
Chelsea Smallwood, a California-based TikTok creator and
lifestyle coach, has built a multifaceted business empire
around infidelity experiences through her organization
&quot;The Other Woman and the Wife.&quot; The organization, which
includes a podcast, coaching services, online community, and
retreats, has grown from Smallwood&apos;s personal experience of
having an affair with a married coworker in 2013 to become a
controversial platform that monetizes complex relationship
dynamics while facing serious legal challenges in 2025.
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<p>
While claiming to support women, the group&apos;s activities have
led to significant emotional distress and real-world harm for
those targeted by its members. The platform has been used to
share private information without consent, blurring the lines
between empowerment and exploitation.
Her journey began with her own extramarital affair. Living in
Novato, California, Smallwood initially gained attention by
creating TikTok content about her affair experience, including
videos where she would dance while sharing details about her
relationship with a married man.{' '}
<strong>
She holds only a bachelor&apos;s degree in Economics with no
formal qualifications in counseling or life coaching
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, yet has positioned herself as an expert in navigating
infidelity situations.
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<p>
After divorcing her first husband and marrying her affair
partner, with whom she now has children, Smallwood transformed
her personal experience into a business model. She evolved
from creating &quot;relatable affair content&quot; to establishing
The Other Woman and the Wife LLC.
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<CardTitle className="text-2xl font-bold font-headline">
The Harm Caused: Kristen Jacobs&apos; Story
A Controversial Business Model
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<p>
Kristen Jacobs is one of the victims of the activities
fostered by Chelsea&apos;s group. She discovered that her private
text messages and personal photos were being shared and
mocked within &quot;The Other Woman and the Wife.&quot; This was not
just a private matter; this sensitive content was allegedly
used to promote the group and Chelsea&apos;s brand, turning
Kristen&apos;s personal pain into a tool for profit and
recruitment.
The organization functions as a comprehensive ecosystem for
people involved in or affected by infidelity.{' '}
<strong>
The business includes a weekly podcast with over 75
episodes, individual and group coaching services, a paid
online community, and women&apos;s retreats in Mexico.
</strong>{' '}
The podcast, co-hosted by Smallwood and Ann Marie, describes
itself as &quot;a show about infidelity, why it exists and what
we can learn from it.&quot;
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<p>
This gross violation of privacy constitutes online harassment
and has had a severe impact on Kristen&apos;s life. It is a stark
example of how the group&apos;s rhetoric of &quot;empowerment&quot; can
be twisted into a weapon for causing harm, profiting from
others&apos; suffering, and fostering a culture of
cyberbullying.
Their online community operates as a paid membership forum
where participants discuss infidelity experiences in what the
organization markets as a &quot;judgment-free space.&quot;
</p>
<p>
The organization&apos;s social media presence drives its growth.
Their TikTok account @theowandthewife has accumulated{' '}
<strong>47,300 followers and 1.1 million likes</strong>. The
content strategy focuses on &quot;humanizing humans&quot; and
providing &quot;coaching with compassion,&quot; though critics argue
the approach normalizes harmful behavior.
</p>
<p>
To add a veneer of legitimacy, the team now includes licensed
professionals like clinical therapist Carolina Vilalva, an
evolution from the initial model built solely on personal
experience.
</p>
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<CardTitle className="text-2xl font-bold font-headline">
Major Lawsuit Threatens the Empire
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<CardDescription>
Kristen Jacobs&apos; Story of Harm
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<p>
In 2024, The Other Woman and the Wife LLC became embroiled in a
significant legal battle.{' '}
<strong>
The organization filed suit against Kristen Jacobs in Miami
County, Ohio Common Pleas Court (Case No. 24-498), but faces
serious counter-allegations including tortious interference
with business relations, cyberbullying, invasion of privacy,
and emotional distress.
</strong>
</p>
<p>
Court documents reveal allegations that the organization
shared Kristen Jacobs&apos; private text messages, personal
medical information, and photos of children without consent.
The community allegedly enabled members to mock and harass
victims of infidelity, with accusations of contacting
victims&apos; therapists and making inappropriate statements about
their mental health.
</p>
<p>
Critics describe the community as promoting &quot;depraved petty
behavior&quot; and creating &quot;a horrifying place for only
UNhealing to occur.&quot;
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Conclusion
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<p>
Chelsea Smallwood&apos;s transformation from TikTok creator
sharing affair stories to CEO of The Other Woman and the Wife
LLC illustrates how personal scandal can be monetized in the
digital age. While the organization claims to provide support,
the pending lawsuit and numerous allegations of harmful
practices raise serious questions about the ethics of
profiting from infidelity experiences. The organization&apos;s
future depends on resolving these legal challenges while many
view it as exploiting vulnerable individuals rather than
genuinely helping them heal.
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The claims made on this website are supported by evidence and
public records. We believe in transparency and holding
individuals accountable for their actions. Below are links to
resources and news articles covering the issues mentioned.
individuals accountable for their actions.
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target="_blank"
rel="noopener noreferrer"
>
News Article: &quot;The Dark Side of Online 'Empowerment'
Groups&quot; - The Daily Chronicle
The Other Woman and the Wife LLC v. Kristen Jacobs - Miami
County, Ohio Common Pleas Court (Case No. 24-498)
</a>
</li>
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<a
href="#"
href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife"
className="text-primary hover:underline"
target="_blank"
rel="noopener noreferrer"
>
Public Statement from Kristen Jacobs on Online Harassment
Official TikTok Account for The Other Woman and the Wife
</a>
</li>
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<a
href="#"
href="https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/"
className="text-primary hover:underline"
target="_blank"
rel="noopener noreferrer"
>
Investigation into &quot;The Other Woman and the Wife&quot;
Facebook Group Activities
Official Website for The Other Woman and the Wife
</a>
</li>
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